Sexual Harassment

On By ResaIn Book Reviews

by: Merril D. Smith

I thought I knew everything about sexual harassment.

Seems a lot of life is learning what I already know, then learning it better.

What I Already Knew

That the majority of sexual harassments are committed by men on women. However, it also includes women harassing men, men harassing men, and women harassing women.

Many victims don’t report due to: retaliation, fear of job loss, no promotions, shame, humiliation, self blame and helplessness.

That it happens in the corporate world, in the military, in the streets, in prisons, in religions and online.

The Book’s Introduction: Anita Hill

Photo R. Michael Jenkins – Wikimedia Commons

The book says –“In 1991, Anita Hill testified before the Senate Judiciary Committee about her experiences with Clarence Thomas” Then continues “Though she did not coin the term “sexual harassment”, Hill’s testimony introduced both the phrase and the concept to many Americans,”

I was honoured to be the costume designer on Strange Justice, a Showtime movie about the Anita Hill/Clarence Thomas hearings.

Based on the book by Jane Meyer and Jill Abramson, the details on all that is public record are beyond litigation. I even copied everyone’s clothes as closely as possible.

Although I had followed the event in the news, I had no idea how horribly and sneakily Anita Hill was treated, in preference and deference to Clarence Thomas.


None of the men on the Senate hearing panel believed or wanted to believe Hill. Angela Wright, who had also been harassed by Thomas, waited 3 days to testify, but was never called. When production wrapped, I was –

Cheesed Off!

In my way of thinking, I believe Hill was sexually harassed (victimized) twice, once by Thomas in the course of their working relationship, and a second time by the Senate Committee because they sidelined her, threw her under the bus, in favour of Thomas.

Resa – So, Merril, what do you say to what I just said?

Merril – Anita Hill was one public face. What happened to her has happened to thousands of women in some way–the harassment at work and the denial by men that it happened. I believe her accounts of what happened and that Clarence Thomas, now a Supreme Court Justice, sexually harassed her. What possible reason would she have to make it up?

Was she treated as she was by the Senate committee because she is a woman? Yes, I think she was. Similarly, the allegations against Brett Kavanaugh by Christine Blasey Ford were not taken seriously–the FBI did not investigate– and she received death threats. She and her family had to live in hotels.

Read about it! For Christine Blasey Ford, the fallout of the Kavanaugh hearing is ongoing.  

Some of What I Learned

Sexual assault is a crime. Sexual harassment is a civil rights issue.

Defining what sexual harassment is has proven to be tricky.

Gunning- “the notorious practice of prisoners openly masturbating in front of female staff.”

Phyllis Schlafly

“lawyer, conservative leader, antifeminist,”

“1970’s helped to assure the defeat of The Equal Rights Amendment to the Constitution.”

One of her thoughts on workplace sexual harassment was:

If Congress could stop”government induced inflation” women would not be forced to work outside the home and Congress could “keep women out of places where they don’t belong”.

There’s lots more, but talking about her makes me gassy.

“women who complain about sexual harassment often cause more problems than they solve” –Washington Post on trump supporters’ thoughts – 2016 election

There are rules for reporting and handling cases of Sexual Harassment

“backlash stress” Fear of being accused of sexual harassment causing missed work and limited interactions with co-workers

I was shocked to find out just how much sexual harassment is an issue in schools, and that it’s still prevalent despite laws.

Title IX (1972) – “prohibits discrimination on the basis of sex for any school or educational activity that receives or benefits from federal financial assistance.”

Me Too – Created by Tarana Burke as Just Be Inc. in 2003, then renamed Me Too in 2007,

Alyssa Milano, unaware of Burke’s movement, popularized #MeToo online. When made aware of Burke, Milano reached out.

Besides “Sexual Harassment” Merril has written an article: “Unworthy of Humane Treatment: The Old Story of Prison Rape in the United States and Consequences for Survivors”(2018) 

AND – “Encyclopedia of Rape and Sexual Violence” (2018) 2 volumes

Resa – Whew! I’m impressed. Is there more?

Merril – The article on prison rape was written for a book I co-edited with scholar Tuba Inal, Rape Cultures and Survivors: An International Perspective. 

It is in Vol. 2, Rape Cultures and Their Consequence for the Survivors. We each wrote a chapter for the book. Yes, it came out the same year as the Encyclopedia of Rape and Sexual Violence, for which I also wrote some articles. 

I have also written or edited other works that touched on violence against women, including:

Encyclopedia of Rape (2004) Sex Without Consent: Rape and Sexual Coercion in America (ed) 2001

Sex and Sexuality in Early America (1998)

Breaking the Bonds: Marital Discord in Pennsylvania, 1730-1830 (1991)

And a recent chapter on Sex in Eighteenth-Century Philadelphia

Resa – What was it like while writing the books and the article? Were you angry, sad? Did it upset you emotionally? Was it hard to focus? Did you feel like running away?

Merril – I was–I am–indignant that women have been and still are often treated as second-class citizens. Reading accounts of rape is upsetting. Of course, it is! When I was reading about rape and war crimes it was particularly difficult, and I had to take breaks to go outside. But I think it’s important that people know about such things. I had contracts to complete these books.

Resa – Since the publication of “Sexual Harassment” (2020) has there been anything you would update or add in the book now?

Merill – Well, laws have changed. Harvey Weinstein’s rape conviction was overturned for procedural reasons. I’ve no doubt he’s guilty.

I discussed the current president in his first administration, and now here we are with him again, and things are worse. Government agencies are being dismantled. So how and where do people report workplace sexual harassment? And I can’t imagine such reports being investigated in the military either. Trans people are more at risk than they were before. 

Resa -Does the overturning of Roe V. Wade figure into this, at all? 

Merril – Well, it figures into the treatment of women as second-class citizens. The Dobbs decision allowed states to criminalize abortion. We’ve seen this has applied to women with life-threatening pregnancies, and the arrest of women who have had miscarriages. This is all part of the dismantling of our democracy, and it all is part of Project 2025’s plan to set up a theocracy. This goes along with old ideas of a strong man at the top of government, and each household with  its own male ruler.

I should point out something that people may not know, but abortion was not a criminal act in early America. 

Resa– Now that is most interesting!

Not just still cheesed … more cheesed!

This 360 page reference book has 7 sections: Background and History, Problems, Controversies and Solutions, Perspectives, Profiles, Data and Documents, Resources, Chronology.

I borrowed “Sexual Harassment” from the Toronto Public Library System, renewed it the 3 allowed times, then had to keep it overdue. It is a well researched reference book based on: laws, court cases, studies, publicly documented hearings and various other factual data.

This is not a page turning novel, yet it is gripping in a different and real way.

These books are available on Amazon, as well as in libraries.

NOTE: “Sexual Harassment”, the book, focuses on the US and its definitions. Obviously, it exists everywhere, but it’s not against the law everywhere

226 thoughts on “Sexual Harassment”

  1. What the Trump/Musk administration has in mind for women will turn them back to living incubators. Hope it doesn’t spill over to other countries.

    1. Project 2025 envisions a theocracy with White men at the top, and women’s role to be in the home. They’re already trying to take away our right to vote. The book came out during the felon’s first term when there were still some guardrails in place.

        1. I don’t see it happening. Maybe if we actually have elections in two years and get a Democratic majority in both chambers. But I don’t want Vance–he might be even worse.

      2. Project 2025 – sounds like “The Handmaid’s Tale” (1985) – 40 years ago. Amazing how loud warning bells can ring and many don’t hear.
        In 1949 Orwell published 1984. More bells not listened to. – 76 years ago.

    2. From what I’ve been observing, you seem to be right. I sure hope it doesn’t spill over, too.
      Thank you for reading and commenting!

  2. I can’t thank you enough, Resa, for reading this book of mine–a reference book! And then putting together this wonderful post?! I truly appreciate it. 💙

    1. You’re welcome Merril!
      I found it quite fascinating, riveting in a way.
      I did personalize some of it.
      In my life I have been sexually assaulted and harassed.
      Reading this book made me feel … not alone.

      Thank you for writing it! 💙

  4. I am acquainted with Merrill via her poetry. Now I have a MUCH better sense of her non-poetic writing — about extremely intense topics! Thank you for this blog post with your beautiful artworks. And hurrah that you work of projects like the Anita Hill Showtime movie STRANGE JUSTICE! More of us need to be reminded about “how horribly and sneakily Anita Hill was treated, in preference and deference to Clarence Thomas.”

    1. Thank you Will!
      I was introduced to Merril though her poetry, which is brilliant.
      I read another of her books “Cultural Encyclopedia of the Breast” which was somewhat lighter, than this book. https://graffitiluxandmurals.com/2024/10/02/the-breast-with-special-guest-cultural-encyclopedia-of-the-breast/
      It made me want to investigate her work, further.

      Showtime projects were always fabulous, during the time I worked for them. “Strange Justice” was just one of the intriguing slices of history I helped make into a movie for them.

      Thank you for reading and for your lovely comment!

  5. Given the subject matter, no too sure if “liking” this post is an appropriate term. “Appreciate” might be better. Anyhow, WP only give one option for registering reaction, so there we are…

    I, as always, did “like” the graffiti images though 👍

    ⬻𓂀✧ ‌ ‌ ✬ღ☆ ‌ ‌ ∞ ♡ ∞ ‌ ‌ ☆ღ✬ ‌ ‌ ✧𓂀⤖

    1. Thank you very much, Graham. That’s a totally appropriate reaction that I appreciate. No one should like sexual harassment, but the murals are amazing!

    2. Graham,
      I understand about “likes”. I have faced that many times.
      An “Appreciate” button would be welcome.

      I’m grateful you took time to read the post, and comment.
      Art does help. 👍

      ✬ღ☆ ‌🎨 ‌ ∞ ♡ ∞ ‌ ‌🎨 ☆ღ✬ ‌

      1. Absolutely! 🎨

        And as for this:

        “If Congress could stop”government induced inflation” women would not be forced to work outside the home and Congress could “keep women out of places where they don’t belong”.”

        Wowsers. All I can say is various scenes from “Don’t worry darling” came to mind…

        ⬻𓂀✧ ‌ ‌ ✬ღ☆ ‌ ‌ ∞ ♡ ∞ ‌ ‌ ☆ღ✬ ‌ ‌ ✧𓂀⤖

  7. There has been made some little progress during the last thirty, forty years concerning the way to handle Sexual Harrasment – but now it seems that government, law and the people are rowing backwards again. That is so weird, there should never be forgotten, that the worlds population consists of 49,7 % female individuals. I have been sexually abused for several times, the first time at the age of twelve. And every step backwards of the law, the goverments and the assessment of Sexual Harrasment feels like the hit of a brutally fist in my stomach…

    1. Sad to say, I agree with you, Martha.
      We are holding the line here in Canada, but there is a strong movement of hateful ideas here as well.

      I am sorry you have been a victim, and I can relate. I have been a victim of sexual abuse, too!
      In solidarity,
      Resa
      xx

  8. What a thought-provoking post! What Merril said about women being treated as second-class citizens and the link to criminalizing abortion is very interesting indeed. There is definitely a fundamental rights issue at stake here. The book(s) she wrote sound important and enlightening. I didn’t even know that sexual harassment wasn’t a “compliment” in disguise until I was no longer a teenager, because that’s what I was told up until that point. After that, I was angry at some of the stuff certain people had gotten away with. The murals and artwork you incorporated are stunning, and really capture the mood/add a new dimension to the article! I hope many others can benefit from hearing about this important issue. 💜💙🕊️

    1. Ada,
      A “compliment” – I get it. I thought the same way, until I didn’t like/respond to certain “compliments”, and they turned to assault.

      Thank you about the art I added. I wanted people to read this, but blocks of text can be uninviting. So, I figured I’d add images to help it along.

      It is an important issue. Thank you for reading, and for you considerate comment! 💜💙🕊️

      1. Gosh…this is almost spooky because these two comments , yours and Ada’s re the compliment in disguise is something I was talking about the other day, on the subject of when I was young you couldn’t even go for a drink with a female pal without getting harrassed and meant to be grateful for it. I will add though that when it turned to assault, it was us girls pouring pints over those we were meant to be grateful to….. Excellent post. Truly

        1. Lol… “harassed and meant to be grateful”
          What a concept!
          I have no words, except I know what you mean. Been there.

          Great comment, Shey!
          Your welcome & thank you!
          xxxxxxxxxx

          1. Yeah me and that mate got to be adept with the pint pouring. Now some might say what a waste of a good pint but actually it was money well spent….

    2. Thank you so much for reading, and for your very thoughtful comment.

      I can see that about a “compliment,” especially when you’re young and maybe insecure.

      I agree that Resa did a fabulous job with the artwork and putting this post together!

  9. Thank you for this very important and sobering post, Resa and Merril. Trump, of course, is a vile sexual harasser and sexual assaulter, but his presidential successor/predecessor Joe Biden was among the male senators who unforgivingly treated Anita Hill so shabbily in 1991.

    1. You are welcome, Dave!

      Oh I know about Biden’s shameful role in the hearings. He did no favour by helping Thomas onto the bench.

      Working on that movie was like an inside education into how government works (or doesn’t work) for the people.

      It’s painful to know that America is now run by a criminal.
      I know it’s a reference book, but somehow Merril made it quite riveting.

        1. Yes Dave, it was quite the experience.
          It’s one of those things that leaves one with more questions than answers.

    2. Thank you very much for reading and commenting, Dave. I’m sure Biden regrets–if nothing else–allowing Thomas to become a Supreme Court Justice. I like to think that some men learned not to harass, but Trump is not one of them. That was evident in 2016.

      1. Yes, Merril, he probably does regret it…but a regret that came too late. It was of course obvious in 1991 that Clarence Thomas was completely unqualified to be on the Supreme Court, including from a moral perspective. And I agree that Trump is hopeless, incapable of learning any kind of decency.

      2. Timothy Price's avatar Timothy Price

        When it comes to sexual harassment, predation, and rape, Bill Clinton is a master and prime example of men in power getting away with it. Of course, Hillary was an enabler, especially when Clinton was governor of Arkansas. Her “Bimbo Squad” was very effective in silencing Bill’s victims.

        1. I agree!
          Sexual harassment, rape, predation is terrible, not right, a blight on humanity.
          This is why I have a hard time understanding why the US has elected another one.

          1. Timothy Price's avatar Timothy Price

            That is a mystery. But one thing is certain, the preditors in power pretect eachother and many of the women who benefit from the power pertect the preditors. Another mystery to me.

  12. Thank you for sharing this incredibly important book and article, Resa. I will look for this book. I am a big supporter of female rights. You will remember the ‘me too’ references in my book A Ghost and his Gold. I also recently contributed poem to Michelle Ayon Najavas’ global anthology about abuse of women. Go you! Go Merril!

    1. Thanks Robbie!
      I adore you because you are outspoken about women’s rights, animal rights and more.
      You are a great thinker.
      “A Ghost and his Gold” is an outstanding book.
      I remember you posting about the Michelle’s book, and reading about it. ( I just read the post again) I hope it has been beneficial to Michelle, and many other women. It’s a most worthy write/ project.
      Go Robbie!
      Go Michelle!

  13. What a sobering book and review to realize how much abuse still takes place and how the people, mostly men, work hard to keep their power, covering up the abuse. Thank you Resa and Merril.

    1. Yes, it is sobering, Brad.
      You are right about power, and covering up.
      I did another interesting project for “Showtime”, “Our Fathers”
      It’s about the sexual abuse in the catholic church, and all the cover ups.

      You are welcome, and thank you for taking the time to read and comment on this post!

  15. Well done, you two. Thank you for bringing attention to this. I saw a T-shirt for sale a while back that said “I always believed Anita Hill.” I love the mural, Resa. But I have way too much personal experience with this topic to be able to make a comment that doesn’t go off the deep end. Just know that you have my support. Sharing.

    Oh, and Resa, in my serial The Dance of Discord, this weekend I’m using one set of your “3 random reader things” AND one of the doors you submitted to the Thursday Doors writing challenge too. Hugs!

    1. Ohh, I like the sounds of the t-shirt!

      Understand about commenting. if I had known Merril before she wrote this book, I would have bucked up, and contributed re: working in the film industry.
      Thank you for supporting!

      Ohh! I can hardly wait for the weekend!
      Yayayay & hugs!

  17. Thank you for shining a light on Merril’s work. It needs a wide audience now as women are being pulled backwards bit by bit every day. I remember watching the Anita Hill hearings. The way the Senate treated her was appalling. The fact that they confirmed Clarence Thomas regardless was appalling. And guess what? He’s turned out to be one of the most corrupt Supreme Court justices (or should I say “injustices”) in US history.

    1. Welcome Liz!

      It’s my pleasure to shine light on this work of Merril’s. She is quite an impressive woman. Also, the struggle for decency is exhausting, but must be brought back into the open often.

      Yes, backwards seems to be the name of many movements these days.

      There are issues in Canada, but different from the States.

      LOL… Yes, Thomas is an Injustice. (Love that)

  18. Fabulous collab Resa and Merrill pulling out all of the stops with your visuals, books, murals, stories that all point to the same verdict. GUILTY! You stirred and dance of turmoil, taking to the streets and shouting from roof tops!
    Wow and you, being “costume designer on Strange Justice, a Showtime movie about the Anita Hill/Clarence Thomas hearings” … Wow, just Wow.. what a feeling!
    When does it stop and where and now however do we have a country that salutes this.. oh that’s right we voted one of the scumbags into office. At least one.
    Proud of you girls!

    👏💓👏

    1. Dear Cindy,

      Thank you!

      Lol… the dance of turmoil – I love it!

      John Lewis famously said: “Speak up, speak out, get in the way. Get in good trouble.”

      Thanks about Strange Justice, Cindy! I am fond of that project. There are several docu-dramas I did costumes for, that I’m proud to leave behind me.

      Hopefully the majority of Americans that put Mr. Scumbag into office wakes up, and shucks off the cultish grip he has one them.

      It is not a unique situation, but not one I thought I’d see in the U.S.A.

      I’m proud of you too!!

      xoxoxo❦🌸🍒❦

  19. This is an excellent and enlightening review. Women are second class citizens all over the world. They can never feel at ease. It had gotten maybe a little better in the US but Trump and his minions has made it OK again to openly threaten women both physically and psychologically. None of the women I know who were raped reported it–why would they? Thanks for bringing it to our attention again. Much and always needed.

    1. Thank you for reading and leaving this lovely comment!
      I agree with what you say.
      You know, Merril writes great poetry. When I found out she wrote these researched reference books, I just had to read one.

      A different kind of poetry.

  20. so sorry the comment I sent this AM is gone and this comment has disappeared three times , I’ve had to begin again. Thank you both for addressing this issue that women are facing. The headway we had made isc wiped out by the Trump administration. We must never stop pushing forward. Thank you both again for a wonderful post. xoxoxoxo

    1. Thank you Holly!

      It was real cool to read a reference book. Somehow, like her poetry, Merril made it flow beautifully.

      I agree about backwards moving rights for women, thanks to Donny 2 Dolls.
      Seems he’s having success just skipping rights all together, and screwing others beyond women. Talk about backwards moving!
      xoxoxoxo

      I hate the WP comments glitches. I did check spam in case, but there’s nothing from you in there. xxxxxx

      1. This is definitely a tremendous issue that affects us all. Merril is awesome , I’m always awed by her poetry but I have to admit I haven’t read this but will.
        thanks for posting this Resa, women continue to be passed over, harassed, abused, looked upon as SS knd clsss citizens. I miss Gloria Steinem , we need a new leader to stop this backward slide.
        sending love to you both.
        xoxoxoxoxo

        1. Agree, Merril is a fabulous poet.

          The oppression of women through harassment is awful, and it’s also sad to know that men harass men, women harass women and women to men.

          WTF is wrong with people? & Children… victims of much sexual abuse on this planet.

          There is a problem when humans increase their brain power, but not their intellect. Learn how to use a smart phone, but don’t have the ability to get a grip on reality with any empathy.

          LOVE to you dear Meece!
          I just saw your mail, and will write back to you after dinner, before drawing.
          I’ve been working on a Sad Cafe drawing. It’s got background, and I’m trying some different colouring in technique… so … taking time.

          xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

          1. I can’t wait to see your drawings! So excited!

            on a side note Bill Clinton was rightly impeached for having a consensual affair with an intern an d lying to Congress about it. Still, there is no comparison to a felon found guilty of sexual assault and other crimes including inciting an insurrection against our nation.
            Without his brainwashed cult he would not be back in the people’s house threatening our citizens and other sovereign nations like a banana republic dictator. We are all suffering, though his cult still refuses to admit the huge mistake that they have made.

            That being said hopefully we can save our democracy , it’s a battle.
            love you!

            ❤️

            1. I’m going to make tea, and get back at drawing!
              I agree about Bill Clinton.
              He was a sex shame.
              He was also not a thief, dictator and cruel.
              He was an American president, who upheld the constitution.
              The sex part was a bible crime.

              What a crazy time, and how much will “Donny 2 Dolls” destroy before he’s stopped?

              It is a battle.
              Love you,
              Take care down there!
              xoxoxo💖xoxoxo

  21. I think I still have my Anita Hill T-shirt. I’m so sick of fighting for the same things for my entire life and never getting anywhere. I saw a sign that said, “You elect a rapist, expect to get fucked.” The ERA was terrible. Some of the activists actually got divorced, they were gone so much. We got arrested for Choice. Huge trial. We were all harassed, all the time. It never ends and I’m wearing the T-shirt for Choice that I made in 1989. I’m wearing a bracelet for BECKY BELL, a teen that died from an illegal abortion because women needed parental consent. I could go on, but I’m just tired of it. It’s been my life and I passed it on to my daughter and it’s been her life and now my granddaughter is demonstrating with us. I was lecturing on Pornography and the effects it had on boys and what they did to girls, I’ve lectured on pretty much everything and here we are AGAIN! I hate them. It’s that simple.

    1. I hear you, Gi!
      It’s a backwards travesty. I’m sick of it too.
      And if we are going backwards here, the suffering of women intensifies in many other places.
      I look around the world and I see so many countries where women have no chance, nothing, less than nothing, sentenced to death if they are raped, drinking battery acid to escape their life of brutal male domination.

      I am sick, and I hate the feeling of hate the regressive regime has imposed on me.
      xoxo

      1. I don’t see it ever ending. Maybe in a future so far away that I can’t even imagine it, or some kind of horror that pretty much destroys the planet, but other than that? No.

    1. Thank you for reading and commenting, Derrick!

      Yes, Merril is a brilliant writer. I am so honoured to know her!

  25. Thanks, Resa and Merril for a fascinating article. Sexual harassment is such a vastly misunderstood subject. There are women who are not being harassed but still walk in fear of the prospect.

    1. Thanks for taking the time to read, Dan!

      Like it said in the book, “defining what sexual harassment is has proven to be tricky.”

      I can’t blame women for being afraid, although being somewhat empowered and walking with caution is a better place to be at.

      Crazy, but I spend most of my walking time in the alleys. I feel safer than on the streets.

  26. Wow! What a collaboration, Resa and Merrill! Thank you for compiling the information, books, and murals, and Resa, for being the costume designer on Strange Justice! Well, I have no words! I’m just so impressed! As to our current leader, I nodded to everything Merrill said. It’s beyond scary that he won in the first place. Actually, I take that back. He should never have been able to run for president in the first place being a convicted felon of 34 counts. Mind boggling! It’s appalling and my hubby and I can’t stand to watch him on the news. However, I have a feeling that many who voted for him are regretting it now because his promises fell flat. Between him, Vance, and Musk, well, how much longer do we have? Oh, it’s only been 100 days. Sigh. Anyway, rant be done. I wish sexual harassment would end, but I don’t know how it would, especially with Project 2025 looming over us. Thanks to you both! Hugs ❤️

    1. Lauren,

      Yahoo and thank you!

      This post was a big project for me, and I can barely imagine what it would have been like for Merril writing it.

      Once I read it, I had to do a piece on it. It’s not the kind of book one does a review on, nonetheless, I reviewed it, because we need to talk about sexual harassment, have that discussion, again!

      I had a fortunate career in film, in many ways. Strange Justice was one of those fortunes. Showtime was one of the best companies I ever worked for.

      Of course with people like Thomas on the bench, Project 2025 has a good chance. I mean, WTF, Donny 2 Dolls (my fave new nickname for “him”) had himself AI’d into a Pope!?!

      Anyway, sending Love and Hugs and Copper book energy!

      xoxo❦🌸🍒❦xoxo

      1. I’m glad you both did this post, Resa, because awareness needs to be spread. But the people who should be reading probably aren’t reading it. Nonetheless, the message is important! And that is so cool to know that Showtime was great to work for! I’m so happy for you! I have no words about our pres. He’s not my pres. 🙂 Lots of love and hugs back to you! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo❤️💫

    2. Thank you so much, Lauren. Rant away! I so agree with you. You are right that he should not have been able to even run for office, and don’t get me started on Project 2025. I heard the head of the Heritage Foundation on All Things Considered last week, and I just wanted to vomit as he spouted his lies.

  27. Thank you for an enlightening conversation Resa and Merril!

    I’ve seen Strange Justice and didn’t know!!!! Love your work, dahling!

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo [to both!]

    and special slobberies to Resa! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

    1. You’re welcome dahling! I read the book in a record breaking 3.5 months! Lol!
      Oddly, for a reference book, it doe move along nicely.

      Oh wow! So happy you saw one of my film credits. Not the most challenging costume design, but did involve integrity in terms of sticking to and expanding on documented reality.

      xoxoxox🧽🧽🧽xoxoxox🧽🧽🧽xoxoxox🧽🧽🧽

  28. As much progress and as many inroads that have been made, we are a long way from where we need to be. You’ve provided a reminder of this.

    Did you ever see the movie “Promising Young Woman”?

    1. There’s no accounting for what book I might read. Lol, in this case a reference book that yes, reminds we are along way away.
      Yet, I’ve had it good, relatively speaking.

      I saw a report how Afghanistan women are drinking battery acid. Death being the only way to escape their oppressors.

      I have not seen “Promising Young Woman”. i’ll check it out, thanks!

      MUAH!

      1. Fo sho.

        My God, that is awful! The evil shit that exists in this world makes my head spin. I can’t rightly think about it for too long a period of time or I get very anxietal.

        It’s a scathing indictment of rape culture, and how so many have aided and abetted this horrible mindset.

        MUAH!

  29. It’s hard to read this and not feel furious, utterly furious. The fact that the Rapist was elected TWICE is case in point about how little progress has been made. It’s disgusting. Thank you to Merril for tackling this subject with strength and facts and compassion, and thank you, Resa, for the excellent interview and informative post. ❤ ❤

    1. Welcome Diana!
      There is no end to the lunacy he has unleashed in the States.
      Many countries, like Canada, are trying to hold the line. Nonetheless, he has set free the lunatic, sometimes violent fringe world wide.

      He has made life dangerous, and soon to be poor hardships, everywhere. x❦❦o

      1. I love the way Canada is “buying Canadina” and “boycotting the US.” It puts pressure on the US government to start thinking rationally (except for the Rapist, who is a mad king). And I’m glad Canada is making new alliances. Take the power away from the bully and it’s good for the bully too.

        1. I’m happy with Canada’s handling of this matter, as well. It seems Australia and Japan have followed our lead.
          I am relieved that we are not alone.
          Europe is still shell shocked and pussy footing.

    2. Thank you so much, Diana!

      I agree–it is disgusting he was elected twice! How anyone could have elected him the first time was beyond me, but then to do it again, knowing everything–just mind-boggling.

      1. Yes, mind boggling.
        It’s a cult mentality. A leader cons people in (usually via god), taps into their hates and fears, groups them together, screws their daughters, then has them all poison themselves or burn themselves to death in a building.

        1. There’s the cult, and then there are the evil ones behind it. They know that Donny Two Dolls is stupid and demented, and they are happy to use him for distraction.

  30. I was a young woman in the 70’s, and I experienced sexual harassment in one of the places in which I worked. It was more creepy than physically intimidating, but it was enough to make me quit. Did I say anything about it? Of course not. We just accepted that some men were like that, and that /we had to protect ourselves/. Not all women were as lucky as I was. I am so glad that in most of the Western world, justice and equality have become more than just pretty bandaids. I am devastated that in the US, the journey towards human equality is going backwards. 😦

    1. I understand. I had experiences of sexual harassment, and what would be physical sexual assault.
      I never reported the harassment, but I did report the assault the first time.(80’s & 90’s)
      It went nowhere!!! The second time, I didn’t bother, because I knew it would go nowhere.

      A couple of years before covid, I was a founding member of The Women’s Committee in my union.
      It seems to be having an effect.

      Yes, human rights are back peddling in the States. It’s a sad & scary scenario.

      Thank you for taking time to read this article and comment! It’s much appreciated.

      1. Damn, I’m so sorry you had to experience that, not once but twice. I didn’t report it either. To be honest, I don’t know that there was anywhere to report it back then. Not that it was much better for you. Gods…and we just put up with it.
        I’m glad you and women like you are taking action. We’ve come a long way, but it’s terrifying to see just how much further there is to go. I hope that when the US comes out of this, the people will demand more, and better, from their democracy. 😦

        1. Sigh!
          Will the US come out of “this”?
          Time will tell, but it’s not just their leader at this point. It’s the mind and heart sets of many US citizens.

          Time will tell. Mid terms in 2 years will be a huge indicator.
          In the meantime, it’s almost cherry blossom season here!
          🌸🍒

    2. I’m so sorry you experienced that. Well, most women probably have, but when it gets bad enough to make you quit, that’s really sad. Needless to say, it shouldn’t happen.

      And we are moving backwards. It’s so distressing.

      1. Here in Australia we’ve just elected so many female politicians to parliament that we just about have a 50/50 split. I’m hoping that this will eventually lead to a more equal country for all of us. No more going backwards.

        1. I like the sounds of that!
          No going backwards here, either.
          Unfortunately, the U.S. is so close that their politics do have an effect.
          We must constantly battle the bad examples.
          We need more women in government!

          1. Yes, we can’t afford to become complacent. I hope the more empathic approach of women will slowly change the entire cultural landscape.

            1. More women in power will be a good thing. Men have been running the show since forever.
              The first thing to go, should be war.

              Still, there have been some cruel women who started and waged war. IE Catherine the Great

              1. Meh…Margaret Thatcher of the UK, too. I think we need to rethink the way people are elected too. They should more closely represent their constituents instead of their parties.

        2. I hope that works, and it’s a good sign.
          A parliament or congress should represent the people.
          I have to say though, we have a few very awful women in Congress here, and in other positions of power, also a terrible female Attorney General. And it’s not that they are Republicans, it’s that they’re MAGA. They’re not conservative, they’re radical, and often ignorant.

          1. That Marjorie Green woman? Yes. Sadly we don’t have all angels here either. There is one woman – Pauline Hanson – who is just awful too. Should be no surprise that she’s into tRump and MAGA as well. The good thing about her is that she is a toothless tiger. I hope that one day, all of yours will become toothless too. 😦

              1. I take comfort in the fact that most women are not like that. I think she and women like her are the political equivalent of Karens.

                  1. I think people of both sexes have been emboldened to act out the thoughts and feelings they used to hide. What is less clear is how those thoughts and feelings became socially ‘acceptable’. 😦

  31. A forthright and important discussion. I fear for my American female neighbours and their rights being threatened. The ‘regime’ are working hard to turn America into Gilead.

    I wonder how many working women through the decades, weren’t harassed. I know I certainly had my share. Thanks for keeping the topic in the forefront. 💜💚📢

  32. A great post and interview! With the hands of the clock turning back a century or two, this is more important than ever.

    Cool that you were the costume designer on “Strange Justice”. I did not see it, but I remember when it was happening. I was pretty angry at the time, but even more so – not only was justice not served at the home of American justice, Clarence Thomas has proved himself to be a force of evil in the Supreme Court.

    1. Thank you Trent!

      I feel so honoured to know Merril. Her work is, as you say, more important than ever. I just had to highlight it.

      Thomas, yes, a mistake. I only hope when it comes to certain constitutional challenges that will end up in SCOTUS, he does the right thing by America, and not “Donny 2 Dolls”.

      It’s so painful to turn on the news.
      I have to watch the BBC to get a bigger picture of what’s happening in the world.
      Otherwise, it’s all … him … and the exhausting lunacy.
      At least backwards, forwards or standing still, we have the arts.
      Speaking of which, MOCA is the next big one.

      1. More people need to hear the message and perhaps the popular will will stem the tide of what MAFA (Make America Fascist Again) is doing.
        Of all of them Thomas seems the most infatuated by rump. BBC is my primary news source, followed by AP. I do like to see other faces besides the not-so-great-dictator (with a nod to Charlie Chaplin for the paraphrase).
        The MOCA should be fun!

  33. Well done. Both of you. Being a “darn furner”, I had no idea about Hill and Thomas. (And the latter is supposed to check that 🎃 upholds the Constitution? Lord have mercy.

    As I read your post, I thought…

    “This is war… on many fronts… Well, no matter how long the War lasts, war criminals do go to trial -with due process- after the war is won…”

    Let’s win the g*dd*m w*r!

    🤚🏻

      1. I understand. We may still be surprised if they get their act together. Otherwise, they’ll stay in the dark pages of History. We shouldn’t have much time to wait and see their final stand. So many legal issues are piling at their door.
        IN conclusion, 2 of my most frequent emojis these days: 🤞🏻🤚🏻

        1. Hello Mr. Furner,

          Thank you for reading, Brian, and your thoughtful comments.

          The pages of history grow darker daily. The pain for all those of us who are tied to the US in some way(s) will be most evident by summer.

          At this point, beyond the tariff/money pain, the US is becoming unrecognizable. So much cruel societal damage has been done in so little time. A mid term win for Dems will slow some things down, but nothing good can will get done as Donny 2 Dolls will: continue his executive orders, winning some in the courts, defying his losses with the courts and vetoing any bills of decency.

          ✊ People Power is the way! ✌️

          1. Hi Resa. We’re in similar positions you and I. You live North of the border. I live South of the border. Both countries are heavily dependent on “Gringos”. All right. Your new PM (did I congratulate you on his win?) appears to be doing the right thing. Stand firm. And change orientations…
            This will take time. Imply some pain. And, I suspect creativity. Good. That’s what we all need.
            In every historic crisis, new figures emerge. It was the case in 1789, for the French Revolution. Chaos and crisis favour the emergence of new leaders with new ideas… I suspect/hope Carney will be one of those.
            (Just hurry up, guys, we’re a bit in a rush now!) 😉
            Be good dear friend.
            ✊🏻🤚🏻

            1. I’m in for the ride. Most Canadians are.
              Carney started the day he took over the party. The ball was rolling when he got elected.

              I’m not sure how the UK/US trade deal will affect things, if its ever finalized.

              In some ways I wonder if we will even bother with the US anymore, should it become an authoritarian regime?

              1. I find it a good example set by Canada. I also find Europeans wayyy too silent.
                (I don’t want to think of a full-fledged dictator in DC…) (Nobody can let that happen…)
                🤞🏻
                🤚🏻

                1. Daily, the news worsens, even though ℎ𝑒 loses most of the cases in court.
                  ICE arrested the mayor of Newark, New Jersey yesterday.
                  They say he & his peeps stormed the detention centre. Video footage says NO they did not.
                  ℎ𝑒 says ICE footage shows different. They have not produced the footage.

                  I guess AI will produce the footage.

                    2. Arresting elected officials? What is this? Uganda? Add to that the fact that the so-called “ICE officers” are a private company. Geo Group. Are they even sworn in? I don’t think so…
                      This is turning into a bad Netflix series…
                      Judge Sotomayor (quoted by Narc Elias) said sthg like “the fight is. now…” She’s right…
                      Be good Merril.

                    5. It is… Though I increasingly believe the end is near. Or at least a moment of definition. That will be when the “Supremes” (Sans Diana Ross) will have to make a stand. All those in favor say Aye? All those against say Nay? Then we’ll know…

                    6. Through the mirror of my mind
                      Time after time
                      I see reflections of USA
                      Reflections of
                      The way life used to be
                      Reflections of
                      The freedoms you took from me.

                      (Bent Supremes lyrics)

                    8. Just read your Buddha post.
                      So today he is 2578 years old.
                      I’m doing a Buddha mural next & want to link to you.
                      I left a request in your comments! xx

  34. I have come back to this post and follow-up discussion several times, Resa!! Merril – your work is outstanding. I watched the Anita Hill and Clarence Thomas debacle as it unfolded and was sickened by the lengths that were taken to diminish and demean Anita Hill. Truly shameful. Sexual harassment and bullying have devastating impacts on individuals, families, organizations and communities. Confronting these behaviors requires a multifaceted approach that includes clear policies, effective training, and a commitment to creating a culture of respect and accountability. There is much work still to be done. Even now, we have deeply ingrained societal biases and stereotypes that portray women as less trustworthy or reliable than men. Every concerted effort must be made to challenge societal biases, promote gender equality, and foster a culture of trust and support to all who have experienced sexual harassment. Resa and Merril – this was a brilliant article that speaks to how we can create positive outcomes for all.

    1. Thank you so much, Rebecca! I agree with all you say about sexual harassment and bullying. They seem to be part of the MO of the current regime. Thank you for your kind words.

    2. Thank you, Rebecca!

      Merril did a most organized, comprehensive and well researched reference book on the subject, that I just had to share.

      Of course, as someone mentioned, the people who really need to read this probably aren’t.

      Still, the more informed we all are, the better equipped we are to move forward, and perhaps take someone along.

      Societal biases are increasing as populations grow. Cultures and religions seem to be crowding each other.

      You are right, respect and accountability are needed.

      We need to keep trying and getting into “Good trouble”.

      Rebecca, thank you for reading and for your intelligent and considerate comment!

  36. Hi, dear friend! It is undoubtedly an old story that men have practised violence against women throughout history. You might remember Tina Turner’s story. I know a great deal about these crimes in Iran, Afghanistan, etc., as the world ignores them.
    However, thank you for mentioning it and the great interview with Hill.
    I apologise for my belated comment.

    💖🌟✌💕

    1. Thank you for reading and commenting. The focus of this book was the US, but some of my other books covered women in many countries. It is indeed horrible what has happened to women in Iran, Afghanistan, and elsewhere.

    2. Yes, the world ignores them. It’s sad. We had a bit more time to NOT ignore them, but now with the new US government causing chaos at home and around the world, there is no focus, no time.

      Interesting that you mention Tina. She will be my next portrait.

      No worries about late comments, ever! I’m often late, and sometimes miss comments.

      It’s great to see you in comments, Aladin. Hopefully this means you are feeling somewhat better!

      ❦💖🌟🤗🌸

  37. I was raped twice, when I was seventeen and eighteen. I didn’t let it ruin my life. I moved on. As a psychiatric registered nurse, I worked with a lot of women who had experienced sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. In spite of that, there are women who do lie, for whatever reason. My husband was falsely accused of sexual harassment at work by an unstable woman who was angry that she didn’t get the time off that she wanted. He was her supervisor. The company had strict rules about sexual harassment, and he was cleared of any wrong-doing. However, if they had believed her without any proof, it would have ruined our family. I do not believe anybody about anything without proof. The Duke lacrosse rape hoax is a perfect example of a woman lying. And we are seeing more and more female teachers in trouble for sexually abusing boys. And I don’t believe women with foggy memories and a clear political agenda, like Christine Blasey Ford. It’s always been clear to me that she lied or was delusional, just based on her psychological profile.

    1. Thanks for weighing in, Dawn!

      Sorry to hear you have had to go through those awful sexual experiences. Sounds like you have a perspicacity to endure & get over things…get on with your life.

      Sorry about your husband as well.
      Agree, proof is important. It’s unfortunate that proof/truth is not always sought out, and that lies are allowed to remain.
      The truth can be inconvenient.
      Lying has become fashionable.

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